What would you do?

[STDiva]

Flirting ain't shit.

[~~whimsy~~]

At one time I would dutifully explain I am taken and still enjoy a conversation. Nowadays I shall callously state I do not give a flying fuck. No real point to maintain exclusivity. In the end only going to end up disappointed and out of time and money due to the mistake of trying to be with someone exclusively.

[LeyaFalcon]

Either say thank you or fuck off...that simple!

[mekhet]

I'd flirt back. I don't think it's hurting anythingand the girl is either a thousand miles away or maybe even a dude. Hmm... Maybe I'll just leave it at Thank you. lol

[maleonetwo]

Of course I'd just say thank you, but I haz a girlfriend.

Maybe I'd still chat with her if she's a friend, but not behind my gf's back. I would let her know.

I wouldn't want her to chat with other guys behind my back so how could I do something like that?

I hope that was a right answer and you still want to marry me, Nikki cause that's how I roll/think.

[nelmes69]

There are plenty of woman I find attractive. Flirt with them? Yes maybe. But I’d never cross the line because I’m not a douche bag.

[Shifty]

I'd organize a cook off.

[xfire]

I keep hoping my g/f will run off with someone else. As for me and flirting with other women, just lol. How else are they going to know I want to fuck them? What a question!

[Sam Fisher]

I keep hoping my b/f will run off with someone else. As for me and flirting with other men, just lol. How else are they going to know I want to fuck them? What a question!

Fixed it for ya.

[Smallville22]

Respond "thank you" and nothing more.

[hotrod808]

first im not good in flirting.
second im in a long term relationship. would say thank you and thats it. love my girlfriend. why should i risk anything

[xfire]

first im not good in flirting.
second im in a long term relationship. would say thank you and thats it. love my girlfriend. why should i risk anything

Love is overrated. You'll probably get to figure out why someday.

[senorzorro]

If I'm in a good relationship I'll say "thank you" and nothing more.

If I'm in a crappy relationship, then I could do something else

[Johan]

"Thank you but I have a girlfriend... By the way, would you be interested in a threesome ?"

Any dude who answers anything other than # 4, is either a liar or a homosexual.

So, all men are liars, gay or douchebags ?

[Rey C.]

I just feel like if you're in a relationship you shouldn't be telling other girls you find them attractive.. Pornstars, celebrities, unattainable women are one thing. Women who actually want to and COULD fuck you, are another.

It's really fucking annoying. Tell your guy friends when you think a chicks hot, sure. Hell you can even tell me.. But telling the girl is not cool in my opinion.

I agree with that. I don't think you should make obvious plays for another girl if you're in a relationship (or she is). But sometimes you can find yourself on a fine line, when your only intention is to just be nice or joke around with someone (in a friendly way). Just by being friendly, you may give someone the impression that you're making a subtle play for them. Some girls, who are used to overt flirting or pickup lines (which they would probably reject), might get the idea that friendly gestures are your way of expressing a romantic interest in them - when that's not the case.

So if you pay someone an innocent compliment, and you notice that they light up after you say it, and then you get a kiss on the cheek for Christmas, a "boob press" when they ask what you're working on one day and then they invite you out for a drink when you stay in town for an extra night, someone has definitely misinterpreted something... or you've sent a (unintended) mixed signal.

If my girl found herself in the same situation, I wouldn't blame her. There is a little fellow where she works who has a massive crush on her. She's nice to him (in a friendly way), but I know she has no interest in him. As long as she's not leading him on (as I wouldn't lead this girl on where I work), you can't control how other people react to you. But if they suddenly go all "puppy dog love" on you, you probably have to get that straight and not just let it go on & on. I can have someone fired or evicted today and sleep well the same night. You sometimes have to do things (for business reasons) that are going to hurt someone. But I see no need in hurting people by careless actions or on purpose (unless they're really asking to get smacked)... especially when it's someone you claim to care about.

[too fast]

I'd probably do a mix of 2 and 3.

With my personality I wouldn't want to be rude

[Ravenholm]

I dont see anything wrong with looking at other women, and likewise for the girl with other guys. It's the old "look but don't touch" routine. I'd say "thanks very much for the compliment" or something like that and move on with the conversation. Never let it go any further than that. And I'd expect the girlfriend or wife to do the same. I treat people the way I want to be treated in a relationship so I expect the same effort back or might as well give it up if it's one sided the affection giving thing.

[GibbsGrad2002]

Respond "thank you" and nothing more.

[vodkazvictim]

You're asking this bunch of societal rejects?!

[PlumpRump]

I dont see anything wrong with looking at other women, and likewise for the girl with other guys. It's the old "look but don't touch" routine. I'd say "thanks very much for the compliment" or something like that and move on with the conversation. Never let it go any further than that. And I'd expect the girlfriend or wife to do the same. I treat people the way I want to be treated in a relationship so I expect the same effort back or might as well give it up if it's one sided the affection giving thing.

Yes.

[NikkiValentine]

You're asking this bunch of societal rejects?!

Hahaha I love my freeones guys! You honestly have no idea how nice it is to be able to ask you guys questions that I have in order to get a male perspective. You guys have no reason to lie to me and I love your alls opinions and advice. It's like I have a whole bunch of older brothers (in a weird fucked up kinda way haha) and some really hot older sisters (my OCSM pals) giving me advice on all my life issues.. It's awesome and I really appreciate you guys!


I talked to my boyfriend, I told him I understand where he was coming from and I also believe he didn't mean anything by it but I wouldn't feel like I was being true to myself if I didn't let him know that it made me uncomfortable. We talked about it and we're on the same page now

[L3ggy]

I have yet another sister? *sigh*

[hotrod808]

Love is overrated. You'll probably get to figure out why someday.

time will tell.
but i think and hope that i will never figure that out

[xfire]

time will tell.
but i think and hope that i will never figure that out

All cynicism aside, I hope you never figure that out, either.

[Mr. Hyde]

Probably none of the above. There is no harm in innocent flirting, as long as you don't take it beyond there. Flirting does not = cheating.