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ILikeBigButts
2006-03-06, 21:51
I really hate anal vids and one of the reasons why is that it looks like it hurts the girl because a buttcrack is small and whenever I see a dick inserted in there, I just cringe just a little bit. So depending on the responses I get, I might watch girls getting fucked in the ass a little bit more.

Caleb14
2006-03-06, 21:57
Dude, I've been told it hurts, but I would guess if you do it as much as some pornstars, it probably isn't painful for them any more.

SeraphiM
2006-03-06, 22:05
Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's entirely possible to enjoy anal sex :nannerf2:

hedonis
2006-03-06, 22:28
My wife says that it doesn't hurt her at all- like Seraphim says above: plenty of lubricant and patience... :thumbsup:

Now I think the sizes of some porn guys' cocks may have something to do with the fact that sometimes those girls don't look like they're enjoying it. But who knows? They're acting, right?

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Chrism86354
2006-03-06, 23:11
damn, i imagine it would hurt no matter what you use, hell thats a small ass hole!

Slam
2006-03-06, 23:22
Well according to Sue (from Sunday Night Sex Show), who did a presentation at my school, anal sex is extremely risky and dangerous if (like everyone said) you don't know what you're doing. Any tears on the membrane will heal very slowly and will get infected as nothing but bacteria passes by them. It also depends on the woman, some are mentally adverse to the act of it, others have some physical adverse reaction to it. Its something that will differ from woman to woman and even from man to man (in the sense if they find it something they want to perform or not).

glk35
2006-03-06, 23:28
damn, i imagine it would hurt no matter what you use, hell thats a small ass hole!



sure its a small hole but its designed to stretch think about when you eat a bunch and the next day you dump a big load if your asshole didnt stretch it would force your poop out like a playdough machine.

ThomasJenkins
2006-03-06, 23:38
Many women love anal sex. It's been said there are hundreds more nerve endings in the anal cavity as compared to the vagina, so there is a greater sensation with anal sex. But it's not something that you just plunge it in there the first time and start pounding away... you work up to it and ease the sphincter muscles into it. Start off by initially probing with a lubricated finger. Then after a few sessions add two fingers. Then move to a small vibrator. Some girls like butt plugs. Basically over time the anus gets used to it, she gets used to it and she starts to relax and enjoy it. Then you perform anal intercourse. If she enjoys it, you'll probably do a lot more of it. If she doesn't, she'll hate you, call you a sick perve and withhold sex altogether!

BNF
2006-03-07, 04:00
Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's entirely possible to enjoy anal sex :nannerf2:

:rofl: Pitcher or catcher???? :rofl: j/k:booty:


(I couldn't resist, Seraphim, my friend!)

mythex
2006-03-07, 04:10
well,if is hurt maybe for the first timer...but, most of the girls / woman enjoying it...maybe they fell extraordinary differ than you put your c**k in their pussy....
just.....wear a protection and it will always ok.:D

siliconebrian
2006-03-07, 04:39
indeed, first (few) times it hurst her a bit, but then once you are used to the feeling women enjoy it as much as men do!!
I have had girlfriends who loved anal sex! they wanted it every time!
I also had gf's who didn't like it!
If you don't realy WANT it, I imagine you won't be able to enjoy it!

theadmanmufc
2006-03-07, 08:17
Yeah it shouldn't hurt once you get past the initial entry etc.

SeraphiM
2006-03-07, 10:05
Pitcher or catcher????

(I couldn't resist, Seraphim, my friend!)

http://bestsmileys.com/doh/3.gif
Doh, you got me!
I've got bad knees, so of course it would be pitching :D

Ax3C
2006-03-07, 10:24
Okay, let's inject just a little bit more medical reality into this conversation ...


www.Google.com - Does anal sex hurt? (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=Does+anal+sex+hurt%3F&btnG=Search)



Anal sex can hurt if partners do not take certain steps. The anus does not produce enough lubrication for comfortable anal sex, so it is important to use an artificial water-based lubricant — like K-Y jelly or Astroglide — for anal sex. (Using an oil-based lubricant, like Vaseline, can damage latex condoms.)

It is also important to stop if anything hurts and communicate with your partner about how you feel — sex play that is painful or uncomfortable should not continue.

As with first vaginal intercourse, first anal intercourse is more comfortable with finger play before the penis is inserted. But not all people enjoy anal intercourse. Those who don't enjoy it should not be embarrassed and should not force themselves to accept it.

Many people however, do enjoy anal sex and think it's perfectly normal. However, like unprotected vaginal intercourse, unprotected anal intercourse is high-risk for many sexually transmitted infections, such as gonorrhea, HIV, chlamydia, syphilis, herpes, HPV, and hepatitis. Use condoms during anal sex to decrease the risk of sexually transmitted infections.


> Cite: www.teenwire.com (http://www.teenwire.com/ask/2003/as-20030425p552-anal.php)



Anal sex, bum sex, sex by the back door, the Greek or Italian way, fudge-packing and sodomy - these are some of the terms used to describe anal sex. It involves anal penetration of the anus (or rectum) by an erect penis or even a vibrator, dildo or "butt plug."

Previously regarded as sexual activity primarily practised by male homosexuals, it now appears to be a fairly common, even acceptable, alternative to vaginal intercourse amongst heterosexuals. The most common questions we get on the show relate to anal intercourse - how to do it, is it dangerous, does it hurt, why do people want to do it, is it pleasurable for the female, and how do I talk my partner into trying it?

This is a very controversial and a very sensitive, even taboo, topic amongst many mature people, and I would not want to offend, but anal sex is also high risk behavior and we have an obligation to provide accurate information so younger people can make an informed decision.

First - anatomy. At the lower end of the bowel, there are two distinct circular bands of muscles, sphincters, one is located about an 1 ˝" above the other. These clamp down tight to prevent the passage of feces or gas. The mucous membrane lining of the rectum is not as heavy as the lining of the vagina, so it can tear quite easily and it does not heal as quickly as the vagina. Because feces, loaded with bacteria, are passing by, any tear is vulnerable to infection.

The vigorous thrusting that may occur during anal intercourse can tear the mucous membrane. This can develop into an anal abscess that can become infected - more about that in a moment. Also, if your partner has any of the sexually transmitted infections (STI's), then you could get infected through the tear. So we are talking about gonorrhea (treatable); venereal warts (treatable if external, difficult if up in the rectum); syphilis (treatable); herpes (treatment, no cure); yeast infection (treatable); and HIV and AIDS (treatment but no cure.) You do not want any of these STI's.

Preferably, you're in a long-term, committed relationship, infection free, and practising SAFER SEX.

But wait, there's more bad news. A “fissure” is a tear up in the rectum can develop into a crack, and become infected.

It can gradually extend out through the wall of the bowel and form a channel across, through and into a nearby organ. That's called a "fistula", and it would allow feces to flow from the rectum into the vagina and out.

Repairing tears, fissures and fistulas is delicate surgery and recovery can be long and painful.

Some doctors will tell you that hemorrhoids (piles) could result from vigorous anal sex, and although I have no medical research, I have heard people say that the rectum "gets sloppy", stretched. I am dubious - if this was true, why doesn't it get sloppy with regular bowel movements? With no definitive research, you do the math.

The best prevention is "don't go there". But if you do decide to try it, you and your partner must talk about it beforehand and agree on these points:

1. Your partner must be very, very gentle, absolutely no forced penetration and no vigorous thrusting.
2. You must use lots and lots of good lubrication, (anal lube, not saliva).
3. Your partner must use a condom…all the time, every time.
4. Your partner must respect "stop". If you say ouch, or it hurts, or No or quit… they must stop immediately.
5. It must be understood, if you do not want to have anal sex again, there will be no pressure, no threats and no pleading. NO means NO.
6. Use a well-lubricated condom without spermicide, either on the sex toy or his penis. Spermicide can irritate the rectum.
7. Never shift from anal sex back to vaginal sex without changing condoms. Feces can end up in the vagina and cause infections.



> Cite: Anal Sex - Talk Sex With Sue Johansson (http://www.talksexwithsue.com/analsex.html)

> Cite: The Ten Rules Of Anal Sex (http://www.sexuality.org/authors/morin/analrule.html)

> Cite: Myths Of Anal Sex (http://tperkins.com/anal/myths.html)


^ Sould be all anyone wants to ever know about the do's and don'ts of anal sex. :hatsoff:

satyrsam
2006-03-07, 11:34
It doesn't hurt, if it does it's because you're doing it wrong. Lub is the key, when you think you've used too much, add a bit more.

sammy402002
2006-03-07, 12:28
Dude, I've been told it hurts, but I would guess if you do it as much as some pornstars, it probably isn't painful for them any more.--It is not just the hurting,but the damage done to the girls if they do it a lot.I suspect that many of these Pretty 19 year old pornstars will be wearing adult diapers by the time they are 25 or 30 years old.I saw an interview with Haley Paige and She said that She already has problems and is hoping it will heal.--Good Luck--Depends undergarments are probably a big seller in California.It is a shame that Young Women allow themselves to be abused for a few hundred dollars.They are used up & thrown away and more Girls are just waiting in line to be the next victims.

boobs_lover
2006-03-07, 13:17
i love it when a girl get gang bang

thegunner
2006-03-07, 15:14
I certainly wouldnt like it!!!

Im sure if you do it properly, it could give some pleasure to the girl

cuntlover
2006-03-07, 16:59
It does not hurt one bit.
Any woman saying otherweise has had a man who doesn't know what the hell is doing or she migth have a problem with her emeroids(not sure if it's spelled like that)That's always possible to.
My wife loves to get it in the ass. Her orgasm are 3 times stronger.
You have to be gentle
1- she must use an enema
2-the guy must be lubbed and you only start with 1 finger gently while rubbing her pussy to get her excited.
3-gently while going in and out she will star to relaxe,,,and then you can use a small but plug and go from there still going very slowly and gently.
I could go on and on about this but some guy's just know how to do it and woman are crazy about it. I've never had complaints only girls moaning.
The best is to learn about it by reading and also a little practice.Maybe star with only a finger the first time. And go from there.
Anybody out there who hates it. Find a partner that knows how to really do it and you will see a bigggggg difference .
love you

ArabJames
2006-03-07, 17:12
from what my girl tells me...it hurts a very lil bit at first...but then its fine

siliconebrian
2006-03-08, 04:28
indeed cuntlover I agree, just need to know how to do it right and the girl will enjoy it! no doubt about it!

jumbo_jim
2006-03-08, 04:42
In order for it not to hurt. You just need to ease yourself in to it the first couple of times. The more you do it the easier it gets apparently.

JohnDevo
2008-03-02, 23:41
to quote cuntlover
1- she must use an enema

this is important. porn rarely shows 'dirty' anal sex because it's visually un-appealing. i've heard horror stories of ruined sofas...
that's not to say anal sex can't be clean without an enema, i have gay friends who claim it's fine, but my girlfriend won't do it without, she would be embarrassed.

re: the 'pain' question: i'm sure that some of the anal porn you see does hurt (e.g. http://www.asktiava.com/search/?trade=&q=%22brutal+dildo%22+anal&t=m&m=date , http://www.asktiava.com/search/?trade=&q=%22double+anal%22&t=m&m=date ). This is offputting to me also. I think some of these girls must have a serious recovery time following scenes. However, as previously mentioned, the rectum is very flexible when relaxed (and super lubed). If you get a girl who's comfortable with, practiced, and enjoys anal stimulation, and then you take it very slowly, the capacity for comfortable diameter is surprisingly high.

Anal feels very different, and can be a great way to spice things up.
Plus, it looks pretty hot (to me at least).

gunslingingbird
2008-03-03, 00:36
Have you ever gotten your prostate checked? Did that hurt? I hope that answers the question.

smallville206
2008-03-03, 03:24
My girl dislikes the initial pain, but she LOVES anal sex.

Count Fuckula
2008-03-03, 03:28
It would be good to have some female points of view on this thread .. I have had g/fs in the past who prefer anal to any other kind of penetration .. but gentle is always best .. i totally agree ..

Count Fuckula
2008-03-03, 03:29
Have you ever gotten your prostate checked? Did that hurt? I hope that answers the question.yes but i do mine via a blood test :D .. twice yearly

smallville206
2008-03-03, 03:33
yes but i do mine via a blood test :D .. twice yearly


I didn't know you could have them done via a blood test, I have never had one but would gladly take a blood test over the internal method.

Count Fuckula
2008-03-03, 03:37
I didn't know you could have them done via a blood test, I have never had one but would gladly take a blood test over the internal method.You can .. ask your doctor .. any male over 40 should have it done regularly .. there CAN be false positives associated with a blood test method .. but there are also other signs too

smallville206
2008-03-03, 03:48
You can .. ask your doctor .. any male over 40 should have it done regularly .. there CAN be false positives associated with a blood test method .. but there are also other signs too

I turn 37 this year so it's something I need to keep up on, I appreciate the info.

Count Fuckula
2008-03-03, 04:02
glad to help ...

slightly off topic .. but
http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/factsheet/Detection/PSA

http://www.webmd.com/prostate-cancer/news/20070426/new-blood-test-for-prostate-cancer

wenewml
2008-03-03, 07:24
from expirience she will only enjoy anal if you take your time, alot of prep/ lube for the big payoff being her really getting into it and who wouldn't want that

angelfire1972
2008-03-03, 22:03
she needs time, patience and lubrication of course....:yinyang:

qualopec
2008-03-08, 09:02
It depends on the ass hole... I guess it doesn't hurt that much if the hole it's large enough (never seen Bridgette Kerkove's backdoor?!)

Blink
2008-03-08, 14:40
It depends on the ass hole...
Agreed. Some women who have a lot of anal sex have really nasty looking holes with obvious hemorrhoids, such as Brooke Haven. Others have browneyes that are subtly damaged with perhaps scars from healed tears, etc. A few women have ones that still look okay as far as external appearance goes. This agrees with what I've seen one proctologist say: "different people have different levels of susceptibility to anal problems (http://hemorrhoid.net/analsex.php)..."

The rectum is another matter entirely, though. The rectal tissues are much more delicate than the anal tissues. As such, we can't judge internal health based only upon external appearance.


I guess it doesn't hurt that much if the hole it's large enough (never seen Bridgette Kerkove's backdoor?!)
I think the word you're looking for is loose.

jamesw
2008-04-12, 05:38
Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's entirely possible to enjoy anal sex :nannerf2:

i agree with you

Fresno
2008-04-12, 11:50
Sorry, I thank anal sex is just sick.

Not my cup of tea.

delphian
2008-04-12, 13:06
I'll have to agree with fresno on this one.

Asses are exits only.

dave_rhino
2008-04-12, 13:09
No it doesn't. The same way it doesn't hurt a guys ass if it gets fucked.

Fresno
2008-04-12, 13:09
I'll have to agree with fresno on this one.

Asses are exits only.

Thank you at least someone agrees.

georges
2008-04-12, 13:19
Anal sex if done properly is a pleasing experience

lone gunman
2008-04-12, 13:22
I really hate anal vids and one of the reasons why is that it looks like it hurts the girl because a buttcrack is small and whenever I see a dick inserted in there, I just cringe just a little bit. So depending on the responses I get, I might watch girls getting fucked in the ass a little bit more.
Well,based on the experience with my gfs,it doesn`t hurt much but it is just unpleasant for the girl(that`s what turns me on actually,not pain).
But porn guys have some huge dicks,like EE,so that is probably more painful.
The most important thing is to lubricate the ass efficiently.
Then,with a normal-sized dick,it shouldn`t be a problem.
As for you watching,I really dunno man,and I don`t care.

Fresno
2008-04-12, 13:33
Anal sex if done properly is a pleasing experience

It's an out hole only.

sandyman12
2008-05-14, 20:36
think about it this way it doesnt hurt when a man or girl pees or poos so it wont hurt getting fucked

calpoon
2008-05-14, 20:45
it hurts me when people capitalize every word in a sentence.

and when an old thread gets bumped for no good reason.

what are you talking about, man? what does peeing have to do with anal sex?

slackerguy
2008-05-14, 20:47
I'm not really a fan of watching it b/c I can't imagine how it can feel good. It seems quite painful and really gross. This is just my opinion, tho.

calpoon
2008-05-14, 20:49
don't knock it till you've tried it, bro.

Sicario
2008-05-14, 21:05
Doesn't It Hurt The Girl's Ass If She Gets Fucked In The Ass?

Yes it does, especially if its her first time.

Some girls have a definite no fly zone, while other girls have an accordion down there waiting to be played.

senob44
2008-05-14, 23:36
think about it this way it doesnt hurt when a man or girl pees or poos so it wont hurt getting fucked

as calpoon mentioned, what does peeing have to do with anal sex? Are you fucking women in the pee-hole?!

Bridgette_B
2009-05-03, 05:00
personally i love anal! especially in the shower because its easier, however, the only trick is to give me lots of foreplay. i love being touched and kissed on my neck , then starting. yumm!!

Boothbabe
2009-05-03, 07:22
I also love anal. My gf bought a strapon wich is just the right size and with plenty of lubricant I can take it without any problems :)

Skyraider22
2009-05-03, 08:40
I really can't say,but if they are into it it must not hurt and they must enjoy it.:dunno: